Psychosomatic is a term used to describe pain for which no physical injury
or malady can be found. More specifically, It is pain that is felt (in other words it is real) that occurs as a side effect of emotional distress. Psychosomatic pain is extremely common. It occurs in conjunction with emotional disturbances such as depression, bereavement of a lost loved one, extreme stress, and many other psychological stressors. Some experts think that the pain felt associated with these stressors is the mind's way of expressing internal problems.
Psychosomatic pain can only be diagnosed by a physician. To diagnose this type of pain, you first need to undergo an evaluation for physical (somatic) causes of the pain including injury or inflammation. If nothing is found, then the possibility of psychosomatic pain can be entertained. It often takes many months of following a patient's condition to tell for sure that the pattern of pain is consistent with psychosomatic pain. Thus, your friend's diagnosis does not hold much weight from my stand point.
I suggest that you schedule an appointment with your primary care physician
. discuss your pain with him or her and bring up the possibility that you pain is psychosomatic. Your doctor
will know immediately if your symptoms could be this type of pain, but it could be sometime before you know for sure.