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Therapy for Sexual Rebels

865 9th St, Arcata, CA 95521

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Therapy for Sexual Rebels

I'm Elliott Sequoia Endre LMFT-CST, a sex-positive, body-affirming psychotherapist and AASECT member known as the Therapist for Sexual Rebels. I work with individuals, couples, and relationship constellations (polycules, home-cules, chosen families) across California via telehealth, and I offer limited in-person availability in San Francisco and Humboldt County. My practice is for people whose lives don’t fit neatly into inherited scripts—and for people who look “conventional” from the outside but feel the mismatch privately. Many clients come to me when sex, money, power, and consent are in the room, even if nobody has language for it yet. Sometimes the presenting problem is anxiety, conflict, avoidance, resentment, or disconnection; underneath, the issue is often an invisible agreement, a coercive dynamic that has been normalized, or a relationship to shame that keeps stealing choice. I’m especially fluent in: • Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (including complex systems, cohabitation, and chosen family) • Kink/BDSM and power exchange • Sex work and sex-work–adjacent realities (and the impact of stigma, privacy needs, and economic power) • LGBTQIA+ communities and gender-expansive experience • Recovery from rigid, moralistic, or high-demand cultural/religious narratives • Relationships navigating differences in income, desire, visibility, labor, authority, or risk tolerance • Consent nuance, agreements, repair after rupture, and “exit rights” (the ability to change or leave without coercion) How I work My approach is somatic and attachment-focused, with a relational systems lens and depth-oriented influences. In practice, that means we work with both story and body: we track what happens in real time, understand what those moves have been protecting, and build new options that increase agency. I’m less interested in quick “communication tips” without context and more interested in the conditions that make new behavior possible: safety, consent, clarity, and agreements that are livable. People often describe my style as direct and practical. I’m warm, but I won’t collude with self-erasure or coercion—internal or external. The work tends to focus on: • Making the pattern visible (without shame) • Naming power honestly (without moralizing) • Building consent-forward communication • Strengthening repair and accountability • Creating agreements that fit your real life—not an idealized one You may be a good fit for my practice if: • You want therapy that can hold nuance around sex, money, power, and identity • You’re navigating relationship agreements (monogamy or non-monogamy) and want them to be explicit, consensual, and sustainable • You’re tired of performing “fine” while your body says something is off • You want a therapist who won’t pathologize kink, poly/CNM, sex work, or queer/gender-expansive experience • You want both depth and practical change: insight that becomes action And you may not be a good fit if you’re looking for a purely technique-only approach to sexual functioning without attention to relational and cultural context. I’m happy to coordinate with medical providers and specialty referrals when needed, but the heart of my work is relational, systemic, and consent-forward. What to expect at the start We begin with assessment and orientation: what brings you in, what you’ve tried, what’s at stake, and what you want to be different. With couples and constellations, I listen for the system—roles, alliances, old injuries, power dynamics, and how agreements are made or avoided. Session frequency depends on your goals: some clients start with multiple sessions per week to stabilize a crisis or move through a threshold; most meet weekly; and as things settle, we may shift to biweekly. For couples, my standard session length is 80 minutes. For triads/polycules, I typically recommend longer blocks to allow for meaningful negotiation and repair without rushing. If this feels like your terrain, I welcome you to schedule through Zocdoc.