About Emma Brumenschenkel
Clientele seen
Young adults (18-24)
Individuals
Adults (25-64)
Couples
Seniors (65+)
Treatment approaches
Attachment-based
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Emotionally Focused
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Family / Marital
Multicultural
Identity
Gender
FemaleSexuality
QueerLanguages spoken
English
Getting to know Emma Brumenschenkel
I’m Emma Katinia Brumenschenkel, LMFT-A, founder of Lover Therapy LLC, and I specialize in helping individuals and couples feel more connected, understood, and alive in their relationships emotionally, relationally, and sexually.
Many of the people I work with are high-functioning on the outside but quietly struggling inside their relationships. They may feel disconnected from their partner, unsure how to talk about sex, navigating open or non-traditional relationship structures, recovering from betrayal, or stuck in repeating conflict cycles that leave them feeling unseen and alone. I work with couples and individuals who want more than “better communication”, they want deeper safety, intimacy, and authenticity.
Sex and intimacy are central to much of my work. I believe that pleasure, desire, and erotic expression are not luxuries, they are deeply tied to identity, healing, and connection. I offer a non-judgmental, affirming space for clients to explore issues like mismatched desire, sexual shame, porn use, kink, non-monogamy, gender or sexual identity exploration, and rebuilding intimacy after rupture or trauma.
I have advanced training in couples and sex therapy and specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ clients, neurodiverse partnerships, and people navigating relationship transitions such as opening a relationship, redefining boundaries, or deciding what they truly want long-term.
If you’re ready to stop surviving your relationship and start feeling connected again, I’d love to meet you.
What should a new client know about working with you?
Therapy with me is collaborative, gentle, and honest. I will never shame you or tell you how your relationship “should” look. Instead, I help you uncover what actually matters to you and how to build relationships that feel safe, nourishing, and aligned with who you really are. My approach blends attachment-based couples therapy, emotionally focused therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS/parts work), narrative therapy, and sex-positive, trauma-informed care. Rather than labeling anyone as the “problem,” we map the patterns between you, how fear, shame, or protection show up in moments of conflict or disconnection. Together we slow those moments down, understand what’s really happening underneath, and create new ways of relating that feel more secure and supportive.
What is your typical process for working with clients?
My work with clients is collaborative, structured, and deeply attuned to emotional and relational safety. In our early sessions, I focus on understanding your story, your relationships, and the patterns that brought you to therapy, often meeting individually as well as together when working with couples. From there, we gently map the cycles of conflict, disconnection, or anxiety that keep showing up, and explore the emotions, needs, and protective strategies underneath them. Sessions often include guided reflection, relationship-focused conversations, and practical tools you can use between sessions to support change. The pace is always tailored to you, whether you need space to slow down, feel, process, or take more active steps toward the kind of connection you’re hoping for.
Out-of-pocket fees and assistance
- Sliding scale: Offers lower out-of-pocket fees on an individual basis, typically based on your ability to pay
More information on payments and coverage
I am a private-pay provider and do not accept insurance directly, which allows me to offer more personalized, flexible, and confidential care. Payment is due at the time of each session and is processed securely through my client portal. If you have out-of-network benefits, I’m happy to provide a detailed superbill that you can submit to your insurance company for possible reimbursement. If cost is a concern, feel free to reach out to discuss current availability for sliding-scale or reduced-fee sessions.
Education and background
Practice names
Education and training
- Lewis & Clark College, Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy
Professional memberships
- American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
NPI number
1881406882
How soon can I make an appointment with Emma Brumenschenkel?
Generally, Emma Brumenschenkel has appointments available on Zocdoc within 1 week. You can see Emma Brumenschenkel's earliest availability on Zocdoc and make an appointment online.
Is Emma Brumenschenkel accepting new patients?
Emma Brumenschenkel generally accepts new patients on Zocdoc. You can see Emma Brumenschenkel's earliest availability on Zocdoc and schedule an appointment online.
Does Emma Brumenschenkel accept my insurance?
Choose your insurance plan to verify if Emma Brumenschenkel is in-network.
Can I make an appointment with Emma Brumenschenkel online?
Yes, you can make an appointment online with Emma Brumenschenkel using Zocdoc. It’s simple, secure, and free.
What practice does Emma Brumenschenkel work with?
Emma Brumenschenkel works with Lover Therapy.
What are common reasons for patients to see Emma Brumenschenkel?
Emma Brumenschenkel frequently sees patients for Depression, New Patient Visit, Psychotherapy, Psychotherapy Intake / Initial Visit, and Therapy. You can see other visit reasons for Emma Brumenschenkel on their profile.
What languages does Emma Brumenschenkel speak?
Emma Brumenschenkel speaks English.