Mary Tobey, PMHNP-BC, ARNP

Mary Tobey, PMHNP-BC, ARNP

Adult Psychiatric & Mental Health Nurse Practitioner
ID
4.86
“I’ve had a great experience with my doctor. She has worked with me to figure out what’s going on and helped me adjust and start feeling better. ”
Dawnielle C.March 15, 2026
Patients often return
More patients return than other providers in the area
Highly recommended
95% of patients gave this doctor 5 stars
Excellent wait time
98% of patients waited less than 30 minutes
New patient appointments
Appointments available for new patients on Zocdoc

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What patients are saying

Overall rating

4.86

Average wait time

4.89

Bedside manner

4.89
“I’ve had a great experience with my doctor. She has worked with me to figure out what’s going on and helped me adjust and start feeling better. ”
Dawnielle C.March 15, 2026Video visit
“Maria is incredibly knowledgeable and serves with both great insight and compassion. She asks good questions and listens attentively to the answers. She is personable and easy to talk to. The recommendations she made were truly life changing for me as I found a medication that addressed my concerns exactly. 10/10 plus a gold star!”
Carl T.March 3, 2026Video visit

About Mary Tobey

Clientele seen

Young adults (18-24)
Individuals
Adults (25-64)
Seniors (65+)

Identity

Gender

Female

Sexuality

Straight

Faith

Christian

Ethnicity

Black or African American

Languages spoken

English, Swahili

Getting to know Mary Tobey

I have extensive experience working at an in-patient psychiatric hospital treating persistently mentally ill individuals, as well as working outpatient, providing short-term mental health treatment. My specialty is treating mood disorders such as anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, mania, and other brain disorders like schizophrenia and schizoaffective disorder. I also specialize in treating ADHD and am an ADHD Clinical Service Provider (ADHD-CCSP), which means I have extra training in the diagnosis and treatment of ADHD. Additionally, I help patients manage weight gain caused by psychiatric medications. I earned my Master’s in Nursing from Maryville University, St. Louis. I am accepting new patients from ID, OR, and WA.

What should a new client know about working with you?

My name is Mary, I go by "Maria". I have been working in mental health nursing for the past 10 years, and nursing in general for the past 24 years. My greatest joy is connecting with my patients at a human level and helping them realize the strengths within themselves to achieving a more calm and peaceful life. My style of engaging with patients is holistic. I believe in meeting the needs of the mind, the body and soul, for a more fulfilled existence. My clients can expect to feel more hopeful, understood, and empowered after a session with me.

What is your typical process for working with clients?

After confirming your appointment on Zocdoc, I will reach out to you via my practice website HEADWAY and ask that you complete other important pre-appointment information. Follow the link provided by HEADWAY to complete that information. Please note that if you do not provide that information on HEADWAY, your Zocdoc appointment will be canceled. A typical intake session is 1 hour long. During this time i perform an in-depth psychiatric evaluation to understand your psychiatric history. At this session I am able to determine our working diagnosis based of the DSM5, come up with a treatment plan, which includes medication management. If a patient needs talk therapy i refer them to local therapist because I do not practice talk therapy. I only specialize in medication management. A typical follow-up session is about 30 minutes long where I look at the patient's progress, medication tolerance, adjust medication doses, and adjust the treatment plan as needed.

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I do not accept Medicaid or Medicare, even those provided through UHC or AETNA. I do not accept self-paying clients.

Popular visit reasons

Anxiety Disorder
Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
Body Dysmorphic Disorder
Depression
New Patient Visit
Prolonged Grief Disorder (PGD)
Psychiatry Consultation
Sleep Problems
Anxiety Disorder
Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
Body Dysmorphic Disorder
Depression

Education and background

Practice names

Board certifications

  • American Nurses Credentialing Center

Education and training

  • Maryville University, St. Louis, Master's in Nursing

Awards and publications

  • Who's Who AMONG STUDENTS IN American Universities & Colleges
  • The National Dean's List

NPI number

1841969912

Patient reviews

All reviews have been submitted by patients after interacting with the practice.
Overall rating
4.86
Wait time
4.89
Bedside manner
4.89
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321 reviews
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I found Maria to be very knowledgeable and approachable. I feel confident about her recommendations.
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Dr. Tobey is great. Kind and a good listener. Online communication is difficult, but she is amazing and I recommend!
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I felt like I was heard and seen in ways that I had not been previously by other mental health professionals!
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It was very thorough and she was very easy to talk to. I didnt feel unsafe or uncomfortable
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Mary is great! She is a great listener and is very professional. I highly recommend!
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Mary is highly competent and very caring. She asked insightful questions and provided clear answers to mine.
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She really listens and makes sure that all of your questions are answered. I really appreciate her candor and knowledge.
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Great experience. Professional, knowledgeable, and thorough. Overall a great experience.
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Great experience! Mary listened to all my concerns. Made me feel relaxed and heard. Would recommend her 100%!!
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Amazing, genuinely felt listened to and understood for the first time by a medical professional in a long time
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I will definitely recommend Mary to anyone seeking answers about ADHD symptoms impacting their body and mind.
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Asks great questions and communicates effectively and clarifies where needed. Direct and clear, made me comfortable.
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She was knowledgeable and took her time to explain my medications. I would recommend her to my family and friends.
Wonderful, professional caring Doctor. I felt heard and understood.
Verified patientVideo visit
I felt so heard and very much helped with a complicated issue I face in my life.
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Felt heard and like we had a solid plan by the end of the appointment, very much appreciated!
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Good experience, very understanding and asked questions to get to the issues.
Verified patientVideo visit
She is so helpful and understanding. I’m so grateful that I was able to get an appointment with her.
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Mary Tobey was very kind , understanding & very knowledgeable. I would recommend her to my friends
She was kind, took extra time to make sure I understood instructions, all with a smile on her face.
Very nice, quick and to the point, and very very helpful. Cant wait for my next appointment!
Verified patientVideo visit
Great thank you so much for listening and understanding.
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She was great. Very attentive and calm even when dealing with technical connection issues
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Maria is a GREAT listener. She's very knowledgeable and thorough. I highly recommend her.
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Easy process to find a nice and helpful in network doctor.
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On time with great communication. Would definitely recommend
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Good communication and understanding of my situation
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Maria was very informative, helpful, and professional
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I’ve had a great experience with my doctor. She has worked with me to figure out what’s going on and helped me adjust and start feeling better.
Verified patientVideo visit
Maria is incredibly knowledgeable and serves with both great insight and compassion. She asks good questions and listens attentively to the answers. She is personable and easy to talk to. The recommendations she made were truly life changing for me as I found a medication that addressed my concerns exactly. 10/10 plus a gold star!
Verified patientVideo visit
Very helpful and great listener.
Verified patientVideo visit
Very thankful for my time with Maria. She was a great listener and made me feel very comfortable sharing my experience. She asked questions and seemed genuinely interested in my health and well being. She helped me identify some of the feelings I couldn’t articulate and helped me find a solution and pathway to relief. I will continue seeing Maria. She was very patient and kind. We went over our scheduled time due to technical difficulties and she made sure we got the full hour at the end.
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Maria Tobey was excellent, professional, and made it easy for me to get the help I desperately needed. She helped explain things in a way that was not easy to understand. Would recommend her to family and friends.
Verified patientVideo visit
I was pretty nervous before my appointment with Maria but I’m so glad I scheduled one with her. She asked me all different types of questions to understand where I was at which I really appreciated. She was very attentive to my wants and needs, and even concerns, ?when it came to prescribing medication. She’s also very thorough with any possible side effects that my medication can cause which I really appreciated. It definitely seemed like she cared about me as a person outside of just being a patient. This was my first time seeing a psychiatrist and I could not recommend Maria enough. ?
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Great time like always
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Lovely
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I have been (ironically) procrastinating getting diagnosed with ADHD for about a year now and there have been many set backs mainly with no doctor near me taking my insurance. I finally made it over to Zocdoc with a next day appointment and I finally got diagnosed with ADHD.
Verified patientVideo visit
Maria was great to work with! She listened intently and had insightful questions. I felt really heard and told her she is one of the best healthcare providers I met with before. Would recommend!
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I had a great experience, I felt comfortable talking to Mary and I felt like she listened and made suggestions that made sense to try to improve my areas of issue. Highly recommend. She is empathetic and clearly cares about her patients and wants us to be successful.
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She was very easy to talk to, and I felt like she listened to me. I have scheduled my next appointment. I would highly recommend her if it is difficult to open up.
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Maria is so helpful and kind. I’m happy to have found a great physiatrist that listens so well and takes the time to make sure I have what I need and all of the right information as well. She is super responsive and helpful with insurance coverage so I can get my prescription fast.
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Awesome provider. Maria was a great listener and asked very thorough and thoughtful questions. I feel like she really cares and I wish more providers were like her. Thank you, Maria!
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I’ve never had such an unpleasant and unhelpful experience with a healthcare provider. Mary was glaring at me the moment she joined our video call, and was completely dismissive of and disinterested in hearing about my experiences. She made no effort to ask questions or gather additional information about my symptoms after hearing my initial description, and instead coldly wrote me off and sent me on my way as soon as she could. She offered no insight or guidance regarding my situation whatsoever. I got absolutely nothing out of this appointment.
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Mary carefully listened to all of my needs/concerns and made sure to find a solution to help my situation! Would definitely recommend Mary for anyone looking to find mental health care.
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She listened to the issues I was having and spent a lot of time helping make a plan to help figure out my mental health I’ve been able to thrive thanks to the plan we came up with
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Zoc doc is great! Easy to get in with providers.
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Maria was very patience with me and listened well. She explained everything clearly and pointed out what I needed to do in my recovery. She made sure that I have all the help I need and be safe. I would recommend her to anyone that need help with their mental health.
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Very thoughtful, educated, and understanding doctor. I really feel seen and understood and has been the best doctor I’ve had in a while.
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She was so personable and made me feel comfortable right away. She listened without judgement and chuckled when I did. Which made me feel she was hearing what I was saying. She had knowledge and professionalism. Highly recommend !
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Mary is fantastic. Thank you
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Frequently asked questions

How soon can I make an appointment with Mary Tobey?

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Is Mary Tobey accepting new patients?

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Does Mary Tobey accept my insurance?

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Can I make an appointment with Mary Tobey online?

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Which board certifications does Mary Tobey have?

Mary Tobey is certified by American Nurses Credentialing Center.

What are common reasons for patients to see Mary Tobey?

Mary Tobey frequently sees patients for Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Depression, New Patient Visit, Psychiatry Consultation, and Sleep Problems. You can see other visit reasons for Mary Tobey on their profile.

What languages does Mary Tobey speak?

Mary Tobey speaks English and Swahili.

How do patients rate Mary Tobey in reviews?

321 patients have reviewed Mary Tobey. The overall rating for this doctor is 4.86/5. They have a 4.89/5 rating for bedside manner and a 4.89/5 rating for wait time. You can read individual reviews and ratings on their profile.

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