Poya Lai, AMFT

Poya Lai, AMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist
CA
The provider is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and is currently working under the supervision of a licensed practitioner. Their current employer is Between Therapy. Are you feeling caught between cultures, expectations, or identities? Maybe burnout or emotional exhaustion has made it harder to feel connected to your work, relationships, or sense of self. I am an immigrant Asian-American associate therapist who offers culturally responsive, trauma-informed therapy grounded in empathy and collaboration. Many of the clients I work with are immigrants or children of immigrants who long for clarity, balance, and confidence, yet feel weighed down by family pressure, cultural guilt, life transitions, or the feeling of never quite being “enough” anywhere.
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About Poya Lai

Focus areas

Family Therapy/ Marriage Therapy

Clientele seen

Children (<13)
Adults (25-64)
Teenagers (13-17)
Seniors (65+)
Young adults (18-24)
Individuals

Treatment approaches

Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
Compassion Focused
Attachment-based
Culturally Sensitive
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Emotionally Focused

Identity

Gender

Female

Languages spoken

Chinese (Mandarin), English

Getting to know Poya Lai

The provider is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and is currently working under the supervision of a licensed practitioner. Their current employer is Between Therapy. Are you feeling caught between cultures, expectations, or identities? Maybe burnout or emotional exhaustion has made it harder to feel connected to your work, relationships, or sense of self. I am an immigrant Asian-American associate therapist who offers culturally responsive, trauma-informed therapy grounded in empathy and collaboration. Many of the clients I work with are immigrants or children of immigrants who long for clarity, balance, and confidence, yet feel weighed down by family pressure, cultural guilt, life transitions, or the feeling of never quite being “enough” anywhere.

What should a new client know about working with you?

Clients can expect to begin to feel more understood, more supported, and more confident in setting boundaries. I bring warmth and curiosity while thoughtfully integrating evidence-based approaches that honor your culture and lived experiences. If you’re ready to explore what healing could look like for you, I invite you to book a free consultation.

What is your typical process for working with clients?

I specialize in anxiety, depression, identity exploration, and multicultural issues. Together, we will explore patterns, build coping skills, and reconnect you with your values so change feels supportive, practical, and most importantly, sustainable for you. Services are available in both English and Mandarin Chinese.

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Out-of-pocket fees and assistance
  • Sliding scale: Offers lower out-of-pocket fees on an individual basis, typically based on your ability to pay
  • Files your insurance claim: You pay the session fee upfront and the provider files the claim for you, so you can get reimbursed directly without worrying about the paperwork
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Popular visit reasons

Anxiety Disorder
Depression
New Patient Visit
Psychosexual Evaluation
Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy Intake / Initial Visit
Therapy
Women's Mental Health Issues
Anxiety Disorder
Depression
New Patient Visit
Psychosexual Evaluation

Education and background

Practice names

Education and training

  • University of San Francisco, Master's in Counseling and Marriage and Family Therapy
  • Portland State University (Bachelor's)

NPI number

1730046285

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What are common reasons for patients to see Poya Lai?

Poya Lai frequently sees patients for Depression, New Patient Visit, Psychotherapy, Psychotherapy Intake / Initial Visit, and Therapy. You can see other visit reasons for Poya Lai on their profile.

What languages does Poya Lai speak?

Poya Lai speaks English and Chinese (Mandarin).

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