What patients are saying
Overall rating
4.13
Average wait time
5.00
Bedside manner
4.67
About Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley
Focus areas
Addiction / Substance Abuse
Relational Therapy
Sex Therapy
Childhood Trauma
Relationship Struggles
Therapy for Communication Issues
Gender Affirming Counseling
Self Esteem Issues
Clientele seen
Teenagers (13-17)
Seniors (65+)
Families
Young adults (18-24)
Individuals
Adults (25-64)
Couples
Treatment approaches
Coaching
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Culturally Sensitive
Psychodynamic
Emotionally Focused
Relational
Identity
Gender
Non-binaryLanguages spoken
English
Getting to know Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley
I am a well-trained and compassionate psychotherapist who works with individuals and couples to build stronger communication and greater harmony in relationships with friends, family, colleagues, partners and, importantly, one's self. My clinical specialities include helping to relieve feelings of numbness, disconnection, anger, depression, and anxiety and create balance around intrusive or ruminative thoughts, impulsivity and substance use. I also work well with those who are interested in enhancing their self-awareness, seeing emotional growth and insight as an essential part of their life’s journey.
I support all genders, sexualities (including kinks, fetishes), and relationship styles (including variations on monogamy and polyamory) with a particular speciality in working with LGBTQ+ individuals and couples who are exploring their identities and sexualities. Part of my work involves helping clients build curiosity around their lives as children. Our early relationships with caregivers and community have taught us unique strategies for how to receive love, express our needs, and protect ourselves from rejection and hurt. These early patterns often form the blueprint for the ways we feel about ourselves and how we relate to others as adults - and it is in the understanding of these early templates that we can find the keys to healing and change. Together, in a warm and supportive space, we can uncover these early templates and grow toward new, more aligned ways of connecting.
What should a new client know about working with you?
I approach therapy with warmth and directness; and I like to use humor when appropriate. I am both calm and curious; I will make statements and ask questions to take us deeper into your experience. The quality of our relationship is important to me! I often use how we relate to each other as a roadmap to help you build stronger connections with yourself and others.
I obtained my PhD in Clinical Psychology from The New School for Social Research with a concentration in Substance Use and Mental Health Counseling. I am an alumna of the Trauma and Affective Psychophysiology Lab with research examining shame, dissociation, anger, aggression, and childhood trauma. I have provided therapy and assessment services in a variety of settings including college counseling centers, community mental health centers, private practice, outpatient and in-patient hospital settings, and chemical dependency programs.
What is your typical process for working with clients?
As a relational psychodynamic, couples and individual therapist, I help you see the patterns that shape your relationships, emotions, and thoughts so you can feel more present, grounded, and in control of your life. I listen closely to understand who you are while remaining curious about the deeper meaning embedded within your narrative. I help you build a deeper connection with yourself so you can have more fulfilling relationships with others. While lasting psychological change takes time, I aim to help you feel better sooner so that you have the energy to continue taking the risks required for healing.
I specialize in treating complex developmental trauma (i.e., difficult relationships with caregivers during childhood) which can manifest in adulthood as persistent difficulties in affect regulation, intimacy and interpersonal relationships.
Please reach out if you may be interested in working together!
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Out-of-pocket fees and assistance
Ongoing session: $160-350 for 50 minutes
- Sliding scale: Offers lower out-of-pocket fees on an individual basis, typically based on your ability to pay
- Files your insurance claim: You pay the session fee upfront and the provider files the claim for you, so you can get reimbursed directly without worrying about the paperwork
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More information on payments and coverage
Bryant West Psychology works with most insurance plans (whether in-network or out-of-network) to make the financials easy, hassle-free, and paper-work-free for you. We can bill your insurance for you, and you can pay us any deductibles and co-pays by credit card or through Zelle, as well as the old-fashioned ways, such as check or cash.
In-Network: Our clinicians are providers in the following networks: Aetna and its affiliated insurances (Allied Benefit Systems - Aetna, Christian Brothers Services - Aetna, Health Scope - Aetna, Meritain, Nippon, Trustmark ) and student health insurance at NYU, Columbia, New School, and Fordham. Your in-network insurance company sets our fees, co-pays, and deductibles, making our services more affordable. We will discuss this with you.
Out-of-Network: We bill all insurance companies, such as United Health Care, Oxford, Cigna, Blue Cross/Shield, and Beacon (to name a few). Depending on your plan, your insurance may pay up to 80% of our fee (and sometimes more). We will do our best to work with you to make payment arrangements that won't break the bank—that is, your bank.
Office location
Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley, PhD also offers online video visits for patients
Education and background
Practice names
Education and training
- The New School, PhD in Clinical Psychology
NPI number
1033997028
Patient reviews
All reviews have been submitted by patients after interacting with the practice.
Overall rating
4.13
Wait time
5.00
Bedside manner
4.67
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Facilitated a good conversation and set fair expectations for the outcome
November 11, 2025Initials hiddenVideo visit
Dr. Swift is a kind & competent therapist. Highly recommend.
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How soon can I make an appointment with Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley?
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Is Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley accepting new patients?
Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley generally accepts new patients on Zocdoc. You can see Dr. Swift-Farley's earliest availability on Zocdoc and schedule an appointment online.
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Can I make an appointment with Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley online?
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What practice does Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley work with?
Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley works with Bryant West Psychology, PLLC.
Where is Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley's office located?
Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley has 2 office locations in New York, view full addresses on Dr. Swift-Farley's profile.
What are common reasons for patients to see Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley?
Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley frequently sees patients for Depression, New Patient Visit, Psychotherapy, Psychotherapy Intake / Initial Visit, and Sleep Problems. You can see other visit reasons for Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley on their profile.
What languages does Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley speak?
Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley speaks English.
How do patients rate Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley in reviews?
8 patients have reviewed Dr. Lyles Swift-Farley. The overall rating for this doctor is 4.12/5. They have a 4.67/5 rating for bedside manner and a 5/5 rating for wait time. You can read individual reviews and ratings on their profile.