What patients are saying
Overall rating
5.00
Average wait time
5.00
Bedside manner
5.00
About Brian Hayes
Focus areas
Men's Mental Health Issues
Clientele seen
Young adults (18-24)
Individuals
Adults (25-64)
Seniors (65+)
Treatment approaches
Psychodynamic
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Identity
Gender
MaleEthnicity
White
Languages spoken
English
Getting to know Brian Hayes
All consultations are conducted by phone. Most consults are scheduled in the morning, but if you need something outside what’s listed, call or text my office at 734‑306‑2289.
I built this practice for men who want a place to talk honestly without having to hold everything together. Most of the men I work with look steady on the outside but feel worn down or stretched thin on the inside. Therapy here is a private, steady space to sort through what’s been going on and understand yourself with more clarity.
My approach is grounded and relational. I pay close attention to the patterns that shape how you cope, connect, and respond under pressure. The goal isn’t to fix you or push you toward an ideal. It’s to help you understand what’s driving your reactions so you can move through your life with more steadiness and honesty.
I’m a Limited License Psychologist in Ann Arbor with advanced training in contemporary psychotherapy and men’s mental health. I’ve spent my career working with men across different stages of life. Like young men figuring out who they’re becoming, and men in midlife carrying long‑standing pressure, burnout, or disconnection.
Before becoming a psychotherapist, I served in the U.S. Navy during the Persian Gulf War aboard the USS Worden and later worked at the Department of Veterans Affairs in Ann Arbor. Those experiences shaped how I understand pressure, responsibility, and the kinds of burdens men carry.
What should a new client know about working with you?
Psychotherapy with me is a straightforward conversation about what’s actually going on beneath the surface. We slow things down enough to notice the patterns that shape how you move through your life. A session usually means taking a moment from your week, talking it through, and paying attention to what shifts as you do. The focus isn’t on quick fixes. It’s on understanding what’s happening inside you in real time.
As we talk, certain reactions tend to show up — irritation, shutting down, feeling guarded, wanting to move on quickly, or trying to sound more put‑together than you feel. Those moments matter because they usually mirror how you operate outside the room. We pay attention to them without judgment. You don’t have to perform strength or have everything figured out. You just have to show up and be willing to look at what’s happening as it happens.
What is your typical process for working with clients?
All consultations are conducted by phone. You do not need to come into the office for this appointment.
Sessions are available online or in person in my Ann Arbor office. Evening and Saturday appointments are offered. Sessions run 50 to 55 minutes.
My process is steady and attentive. Men often come in carrying pressure, irritability, stress, or a sense of being stuck in patterns they cannot name. We slow things down and look closely at how you cope, connect, and move through your life. Over time, this gives you more clarity and a stronger internal footing.
I pay attention to the moments when something shifts. Maybe your tone changes, you pull back, or something suddenly feels harder to say. These shifts usually point to the places where things get tight or complicated. When that happens, we slow it down and look at what moved. The goal is not to analyze you. It is to understand what is driving the reaction.
I also notice the strategies you use to keep things manageable. Going quiet, getting sharp, staying in your head, changing the subject, or pushing through something instead of feeling it. These patterns often made sense at some point in your life, but they may not be serving you now. The goal is clarity. When you can see what is behind your reactions, you have more room to respond instead of getting pulled into the same loops.
As things shift, many men describe more clarity, less reactivity, steadiness under pressure, better connection in their relationships, and a clearer sense of direction. The goal is not perfection. It is a more honest and steady way of living.
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Out-of-pocket fees and assistance
Initial session: $175 for 55 minutes
Ongoing session: $145 for 55 minutes
- Sliding scale: Offers lower out-of-pocket fees on an individual basis, typically based on your ability to pay
- Files your insurance claim: You pay the session fee upfront and the provider files the claim for you, so you can get reimbursed directly without worrying about the paperwork
More information on payments and coverage
I'm in-network with Aetna, BCBS, Blue Care Network, and Priority Health. Private pay also available. I can help confirm your coverage and benefits before we begin. Copayments are collected after each session.
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Education and background
Practice names
Education and training
- Western Michigan University, Master's in Clinical Psychology
Professional memberships
- American Psychological Association
- Michigan Psychological Association
NPI number
1740512524
Patient reviews
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Overall rating
5.00
Wait time
5.00
Bedside manner
5.00
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What practice does Brian Hayes work with?
Brian Hayes works with EveryMan Therapy.
Where is Brian Hayes's office located?
Brian Hayes's office is located at 2307 Shelby Ave, Ann Arbor, MI 48103.
What are common reasons for patients to see Brian Hayes?
Brian Hayes frequently sees patients for Anxiety, Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Depression, Mental Health Consultation, and Mental Health Problem . You can see other visit reasons for Brian Hayes on their profile.
What languages does Brian Hayes speak?
Brian Hayes speaks English.
How do patients rate Brian Hayes in reviews?
1 patients have reviewed Brian Hayes. The overall rating for this doctor is 5/5. They have a 5/5 rating for bedside manner and a 5/5 rating for wait time. You can read individual reviews and ratings on their profile.