Elaine Bender, NCC, LPC, Tulsa, OK

About Elaine Bender

Clientele seen

Teenagers (13-17)

Individuals

Young adults (18-24)

Groups

Adults (25-64)

Treatment approaches

Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)

Prolonged Exposure Therapy

Christian Counseling

Trauma Focused

Dialectical (DBT)

Identity

Gender

Female

Faith

Christian

Languages spoken

English

Getting to know Elaine Bender

What should a new client know about working with you?

You keep finding yourself doing things you don't want to be doing, but no matter what you try, you can’t seem to stop. Maybe this happens because of trauma: whether it was something “big” that happened to you, or invalidation that you received over and over until it left you clinging to emotions, relationships, and beliefs that no longer served you. You might have even tried therapy for a long time, but it felt like you were just sitting around talking and nothing really changed. You’re overwhelmed. You’re emotionally exhausted. And this is definitely not how you want the rest of your life to go. I work with teens and young adults who feel stuck in lives that no longer feel like what they wanted. Together, we’ll work to figure out what behaviors, feelings, and beliefs that are leading to anxiety and unhappiness, and develop real, practical skills to manage your emotions and actions better.

What is your typical process for working with clients?

You don’t need more judgment, random advice, or endless talking that goes nowhere. You need active support, clear feedback, and therapy that actually works. Let's start with a free 15-minute consultation—no pressure, just a chance to talk. And then let's get to work building emotional and relational health and wholeness.

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In-network insurances

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Out-of-pocket fees and assistance

Initial session: $150 for 50 minutes

Ongoing session: $130 for 53 minutes

Files your insurance claim: You pay the session fee upfront and the provider files the claim for you, so you can get reimbursed directly without worrying about the paperwork

Popular visit reasons

Anxiety Disorder

Boundary Issues

Depression

New Patient Visit

Psychotherapy

Psychotherapy Intake / Initial Visit

Therapy

Women's Mental Health Issues

Anxiety Disorder

Boundary Issues

Depression

New Patient Visit

Office location

Elaine Bender, NCC, LPC also offers online video visits for patients

Whole Life Counseling

2417 E 53rd St, Tulsa, OK 74105

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Education and background

Practice names

Whole Life Counseling

Board certifications

National Board for Certified Counselors

Education and training

Oklahoma State University-Tulsa, Master's in Mental Health Counseling

NPI number

1205549441

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Frequently asked questions

How soon can I make an appointment with Elaine Bender?

Generally, Elaine Bender has appointments available on Zocdoc within 1 week. You can see Elaine Bender's earliest availability on Zocdoc and make an appointment online.

Is Elaine Bender accepting new patients?

Elaine Bender generally accepts new patients on Zocdoc. You can see Elaine Bender's earliest availability on Zocdoc and schedule an appointment online.

Does Elaine Bender accept my insurance?

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Can I make an appointment with Elaine Bender online?

Yes, you can make an appointment online with Elaine Bender using Zocdoc. It’s simple, secure, and free.

What practice does Elaine Bender work with?

Elaine Bender works with Whole Life Counseling.

Where is Elaine Bender's office located?

Elaine Bender has 2 office locations, including in Tulsa and Kenefic, view full addresses on Elaine Bender's profile.

Which board certifications does Elaine Bender have?

Elaine Bender is certified by National Board for Certified Counselors.

What are common reasons for patients to see Elaine Bender?

Elaine Bender frequently sees patients for Depression, New Patient Visit, Psychotherapy, Psychotherapy Intake / Initial Visit, and Therapy. You can see other visit reasons for Elaine Bender on their profile.