What patients are saying
Overall rating
5.00
Average wait time
5.00
Bedside manner
5.00
“Honestly, I couldn't imagine another Therapist. Our first session when she told me she wasn't a morning person, I know she was the right person for me. As someone struggling with Religion, my sexual identity, and so much more, Mary provides such a welcoming environment. She listened to what I felt I needed in order to truly get the most out of our sessions. She is so accommodating. The progress I gain thanks to Mary would have felt impossible with anyone else. I only feel as open with one other person to say the things I usually do with Mary and that's my soul brother. This should really demonstrate just how open and inviting Mary truly makes you feel. Many people are scared of therapy because it's a struggle to truly know whether you will be judge. This thought was the last thing in my mind and when I couldn't be to sure, I was able to approach it with ease. No pressure. I would recommend Mary to anyone looking for a professional who knows how to actually make you feel safe. ”
JCLess than 1 month ago
“The online therapist I had over a year moved to another company so Mary became my therapist 2 months ago.
The other therapist was younger than me so I felt that she could not relate to a lot of what I was talking about since she had no experience with it.
Mary is closer to my age and I feel like she has experienced some of life situations I talk about.
Neither of therapists are cancer survivors like me, but Mary really listens to what I say and provides solutions while keeping me on task (which is not easy to do with my neurodivergent mind being lefthanded)!”
PPLess than 1 month ago
About Mary Cotter
Focus areas
Anxiety
Insomnia
Suicidal Tendencies
Bereavement / Grief Counseling
Psychological Trauma
Depression
Stress
Clientele seen
Young adults (18-24)
Individuals
Adults (25-64)
Seniors (65+)
Treatment approaches
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Motivational Interviewing
Identity
Gender
FemaleSexuality
LesbianEthnicity
White
Languages spoken
English
Getting to know Mary Cotter
Reaching out for help is a magnificent and brave act. I am so glad you are here.
My approach is simple: we start where you are. I want to hear your story and learn about your journey. Together, we will explore your concerns and collaboratively decide on possible next steps and solutions that feel right for you.
I bring over 20 years of experience in non-profit social service work, particularly during the peak of the AIDS epidemic. Through that work, I witnessed profound perseverance, courage, and grief. Those experiences deeply inform my practice and my commitment to supporting clients as they move toward healing and discover their own strength.
I am a graduate of the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College and have extensive expertise working with LGBTQIA+ young adults, as well as individuals navigating grief, depression, and anxiety. As a native New Yorker, a married lesbian in New York City, and a proud member of Gen X, I am committed to creating a safe and welcoming space for all clients.
My goal is to assist you on your journey toward healing. I look forward to learning about your hopes and fears for therapy and supporting you in creating the life you want.
What should a new client know about working with you?
New clients should know that I meet you exactly where you are. Therapy with me begins by listening. I want to hear your story and understand your experiences in your own words.
My approach is collaborative. We will explore your concerns together and decide on next steps as a team. I am committed to providing a safe, welcoming space where you can speak openly about grief, depression, anxiety, identity, and life transitions.
With more than 20 years of experience in social service work, including during the height of the AIDS epidemic, I bring a deep respect for resilience, courage, and the complexity of grief. I look forward to supporting you in discovering your own strength and capacity for healing.
What is your typical process for working with clients?
Our work begins with you sharing your story. I take time to understand your journey, your concerns, and what you hope to gain from therapy. From there, we collaboratively explore possible next steps and solutions.
Sessions focus on open conversation and thoughtful exploration. We move at a pace that feels comfortable for you, addressing areas such as grief, depression, anxiety, and identity as they arise.
Throughout the process, my goal is to provide a safe and welcoming environment where you feel supported as you work toward healing and building the life you want.
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Education and background
Practice names
Education and training
- Silberman School of Social Work, Master's in Social Work
NPI number
1285378950
Patient reviews
All reviews have been submitted by patients after interacting with the practice.
Overall rating
5.00
Wait time
5.00
Bedside manner
5.00
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2 reviews
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Honestly, I couldn't imagine another Therapist. Our first session when she told me she wasn't a morning person, I know she was the right person for me. As someone struggling with Religion, my sexual identity, and so much more, Mary provides such a welcoming environment. She listened to what I felt I needed in order to truly get the most out of our sessions. She is so accommodating. The progress I gain thanks to Mary would have felt impossible with anyone else. I only feel as open with one other person to say the things I usually do with Mary and that's my soul brother. This should really demonstrate just how open and inviting Mary truly makes you feel. Many people are scared of therapy because it's a struggle to truly know whether you will be judge. This thought was the last thing in my mind and when I couldn't be to sure, I was able to approach it with ease. No pressure. I would recommend Mary to anyone looking for a professional who knows how to actually make you feel safe.
Less than 1 month agoJC
The online therapist I had over a year moved to another company so Mary became my therapist 2 months ago.
The other therapist was younger than me so I felt that she could not relate to a lot of what I was talking about since she had no experience with it.
Mary is closer to my age and I feel like she has experienced some of life situations I talk about.
Neither of therapists are cancer survivors like me, but Mary really listens to what I say and provides solutions while keeping me on task (which is not easy to do with my neurodivergent mind being lefthanded)!
Less than 1 month agoPP
How soon can I make an appointment with Mary Cotter?
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Is Mary Cotter accepting new patients?
Mary Cotter generally accepts new patients on Zocdoc. You can see Mary Cotter's earliest availability on Zocdoc and schedule an appointment online.
Does Mary Cotter accept my insurance?
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Can I make an appointment with Mary Cotter online?
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What practice does Mary Cotter work with?
Mary Cotter works with Dedicated by MyWellbeing.
What are common reasons for patients to see Mary Cotter?
Mary Cotter frequently sees patients for Depression, New Patient Visit, Psychotherapy, Psychotherapy Intake / Initial Visit, and Sleep Problems. You can see other visit reasons for Mary Cotter on their profile.
What languages does Mary Cotter speak?
Mary Cotter speaks English.
How do patients rate Mary Cotter in reviews?
2 patients have reviewed Mary Cotter. The overall rating for this doctor is 5/5. They have a 5/5 rating for bedside manner and a 5/5 rating for wait time. You can read individual reviews and ratings on their profile.