About Rebecca Kaderli
Focus areas
Couples Conflict Resolution
Marriage Conflict Resolution
Relationship Counseling
Couples Therapy
Marriage Counseling
Relationship Struggles
Infidelity Counseling
Pre-Move In Couples Counseling
Clientele seen
Young adults (18-24)
Couples
Adults (25-64)
Groups
Seniors (65+)
Treatment approaches
Adlerian
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
Cognitive Processing (CPT)
Coaching
Dialectical (DBT)
Identity
Gender
FemaleLanguages spoken
English
Getting to know Rebecca Kaderli
Welcome, couples and individuals! Seeking connection? Facing loneliness, depression, anger, infidelity, loss of desire, conflict, or divorce? Counseling can help. I founded PairCare, the relationship company, around a simple idea: relationships deserve care throughout a lifetime. We specialize in couples therapy and your relationships, including your relationship with yourself, in Richmond, VA and online.
I believe relationships are the heart of life—if your relationship is strong, you can handle almost anything. Maybe you're stuck in the same argument for the hundredth time, preparing for a new life together, trying to reconnect after years of feeling distant, rebuilding after betrayal, wondering where the passion went, or facing a major life transition. Whatever your relationship or life stage, there is a path forward.
I see adults of all ages. Perhaps you feel unfulfilled or anxious, your marriage hasn’t turned out like you expected, or you're facing stress, emotional pain, or relationship conflict. Midlife brings unexpected questions about your relationship, your body, your purpose, or whether the life you've built still fits. It’s a time of transition and possibility.
My work is grounded in a structurally informed, Adlerian lens that looks at patterns in relationships. This informs the PairCare Method, a couples- and lifespan-focused approach to relationship care.
Clients describe me as direct and humorous. I am nonjudgmental, non-moralistic, and fanatical about counseling theory.
I have been fortunate to study with Master Therapist Demetrios Peratsakis, teach at VCU, and serve as president of the Virginia Counselors Association. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Therapy Informed Treatment Professional, and midlife specialist.
Whether you come as a couple or solo, nothing is off the table. Sex, desire, betrayal, resentment, communication, aging, purpose—we can talk about it. All types of relationships are welcome. You’re welcome here.
What should a new client know about working with you?
Rebecca Kaderli, LPC, LSATP, ACS, NCC, CSTIP, C-DBT, founder of PairCare PLLC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Substance Abuse Treatment Practitioner, Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, and Approved Clinical Supervisor. With over a decade of public service experience, Rebecca has held prominent leadership roles, including serving as the 76th President of the Virginia Counselors Association, gubernatorial appointment to the Right Help, Right Now campaign, and founding the Virginia Behavioral Health Providers Coalition. A passionate advocate for the counseling profession, she has testified before the Virginia Legislature, collaborated with policymakers, and led statewide initiatives to improve behavioral health services.
Rebecca currently spends her time supervising practicing counselors and teaching graduate students, in addition to private practice. Rebecca is certified in Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and is a Nationally Certified Counselor. A multi-year recipient of the Richmond Behavioral Health Champion Award for Advocacy, Rebecca also provides consulting, training, and outpatient therapy through her private practice. When she’s not making strides in the counseling field, she enjoys reading, opera, and spending time with her gym buddies in Glen Allen, Virginia.
What is your typical process for working with clients?
I genuinely like people and am passionate about counseling, navigating couples dynamics, healing depression or loss, and breaking free of imposter syndrome. In our sessions, we'll target the pain, blending relational and tactical approaches to promote change. Whether we're solving immediate problems or focusing on long-term growth, know you can feel better.
I am willing to hold both separate and conjoint couples counseling and marraige counseling sessions. If you are looking for a personalized experience, including sessions in your home or office, out of session support, or a specialized package, there may be opportunity for concierge service. Thank you for reaching out, and congratulations on taking this step towards a happier and healthier future—Rebecca.
Rebecca Kaderli, LPC, LSATP, NCC is not in-network with any insurances
It’s common for mental health providers to be out-of-network. Many insurance plans offer out-of-network coverage, so you may get partially reimbursed. Learn more
Out-of-pocket fees and assistance
Initial session: $235 for 53 minutes
Ongoing session: $195-255 for 53 minutes
- Sliding scale: Offers lower out-of-pocket fees on an individual basis, typically based on your ability to pay
More information on payments and coverage
Individual sessions are currently $195 and couples $235. Appointments scheduled after 4pm are subject to a $30 surcharge.
If cost is a barrier, I have a handpicked team of residents who are able to offer services at a reduced rate ($150-$170). You can see their ZocDoc profiles online: Laurie Wright, Kathleen O'Neill, Abigayle Hodges, and Trevor Drezen.
For my services, I do not accept insurance but am happy to provide you with a superbill to submit to your insurer. If you have out-of-network benefits, after meeting your deductible you may save a portion of the out of pocket cost.
Office location
Rebecca Kaderli, LPC, LSATP, NCC also offers online video visits for patients
Education and background
Practice names
Education and training
- South University, Richmond, Master's in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Awards and publications
- Gubernatorial Workstream Appointment 2023-2025 (Right Help, Right Now Pillar 5 Workstream Member)
- Virginia SLRP Recipient (2020)
- Consumer Advocate Award (2017, 2018)
NPI number
1578930558
How soon can I make an appointment with Rebecca Kaderli?
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Is Rebecca Kaderli accepting new patients?
Rebecca Kaderli generally accepts new patients on Zocdoc. You can see Rebecca Kaderli's earliest availability on Zocdoc and schedule an appointment online.
Does Rebecca Kaderli accept my insurance?
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Can I make an appointment with Rebecca Kaderli online?
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What practice does Rebecca Kaderli work with?
Rebecca Kaderli works with PairCare.
Where is Rebecca Kaderli's office located?
Rebecca Kaderli has 2 office locations in Richmond, view full addresses on Rebecca Kaderli's profile.
What are common reasons for patients to see Rebecca Kaderli?
Rebecca Kaderli frequently sees patients for Anxiety, Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Depression, Psychotherapy, and Therapy. You can see other visit reasons for Rebecca Kaderli on their profile.
What languages does Rebecca Kaderli speak?
Rebecca Kaderli speaks English.