Darryl Gilmer, LMFT, CA | Psychotherapist

What patients are saying

Overall rating

5.00

“Darryl has been amazing in helping navigate our relationship issues. Our conversations with him have produced meaningful discussion and tools that have helped us both reflect and improve our relationship.”

Less than 1 month ago

“His method for couple's therapy involves the John Gottman studies which made me believe that Darryl has put the proper emphasis on helping couples. A therapist that takes time to learn and apply proven studies into his work, demonstrates dedication, care and work ethic that stands out from other therapists.”

Less than 1 month ago

About Darryl Gilmer

Focus areas

Depression

Relationship Struggles

Therapy For Chronic Pain / Illness

Marriage Counseling

Sleep Disorder

Women's Mental Health Issues

Panic Attack

Stress

Clientele seen

Young adults (18-24)

Couples

Adults (25-64)

Families

Teenagers (13-17)

Treatment approaches

Christian Counseling

Cognitive Processing (CPT)

Coaching

Compassion Focused

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

Culturally Sensitive

Identity

Gender

Male

Ethnicity

Black or African American

Languages spoken

English

Getting to know Darryl Gilmer

I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California and Texas, working with couples and individuals. I earned my Master’s in Psychology from Chapman University, which laid the foundation for my clinical approach. My specialties include couples therapy, depression, anxiety, and trauma. For couples, I often draw from John Gottman’s theories; for individuals, I utilize Narrative Therapy. When addressing trauma, I use Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), a systematic and brief intervention. Although CPT focuses on specific objectives, I continue to provide a safe and supportive space for clients who wish to stay connected with the therapeutic process. Above all, as a marriage and family therapist, I emphasize the importance of relationships in healing—including the relationship between my clients and me. I work with a diverse range of clients and feel best equipped to treat depression, anxiety, trauma, life stressors, career transitions, and couples, including same-sex couples. My communication style is friendly and welcoming. I strive to create comfort by smiling often and giving clients my full attention as they share their stories. I also believe laughter, when appropriate, can be a powerful tool for healing. My journey to mental healthcare has been unconventional. Growing up in inner-city Detroit, I developed a passion for classical music and the flute, initially pursuing a music degree in college. After two years, I joined the Marine Corps, serving four years in the band before an honorable discharge. I then explored various careers—truck driving, mechanics, restaurant management, and corporate security. Considering using my VA benefits to study Spanish and become a translator, I was advised that the VA would only fund education enhancing my employability. A career aptitude test suggested therapy as a potential field, leading me to where I am today.

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Popular visit reasons

Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

Depression

Gambling Addiction

Prolonged Grief Disorder (PGD)

Psychotherapy

Psychotherapy Intake / Initial Visit

Therapy

Women's Mental Health Issues

Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

Depression

Gambling Addiction

Prolonged Grief Disorder (PGD)

Education and background

Practice names

Rula Health - San Jose

Education and training

Chapman University, Master's in Psychology

NPI number

1891944914

Patient reviews

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Overall rating

5.00

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Darryl has been amazing in helping navigate our relationship issues. Our conversations with him have produced meaningful discussion and tools that have helped us both reflect and improve our relationship.

Less than 1 month agoInitials hiddenSource: Partner

His method for couple's therapy involves the John Gottman studies which made me believe that Darryl has put the proper emphasis on helping couples. A therapist that takes time to learn and apply proven studies into his work, demonstrates dedication, care and work ethic that stands out from other therapists.

Less than 1 month agoInitials hiddenSource: Partner

Frequently asked questions

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What practice does Darryl Gilmer work with?

Darryl Gilmer works with Rula Health - San Jose.

What are common reasons for patients to see Darryl Gilmer?

Darryl Gilmer frequently sees patients for Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Depression, Psychotherapy, Psychotherapy Intake / Initial Visit, and Therapy. You can see other visit reasons for Darryl Gilmer on their profile.